I know that if you follow the advice outlined in this guide you will get the most out of your online dating experience.
The techniques outlined in this guide, though oftentimes very subtle, will make a big difference to your results.
In conclusion I just want to provide you with a review of the biggest, most important, points:
- Your personal ad should “sell” you:
o List benefits with your features.
o Don’t sound needy
o Make your life seem exciting
- When responding to a woman’s profile your email must be different and exciting or it will be deleted.
- Baby steps are used to transition from online to offline:
o Email is use to get the IM screen name
o IM is used to get the phone number
o and the phone is used to get the date.
- Asking for a desired response will increase the likelihood that you will get that desired response:
o Ask them to respond to your personal ad at the end of your ad
o Ask them to respond to your email at the end of your first email to them.
- On the date remember to relax. Getting uptight and nervous is the best way to leave a bad impression. Nervousness kills personality; it makes you seem boring and inhibited – not the kind of exciting type women are looking for.
- To increase your chances of success establish a connection before asking to get a woman’s phone number or asking her out on a date (also very useful for marriage proposals).
- It is important to transition from online to offline fairly quickly using baby steps so that you don’t lose momentum with a woman.
- To create a good first impression use the “old friend” technique to change your mindset (which will change your outward actions for the better.)
- On the date keep the conversation light and positive.
The techniques outlined in this guide, though oftentimes very subtle, will make a big difference to your results.
In conclusion I just want to provide you with a review of the biggest, most important, points:
- Your personal ad should “sell” you:
o List benefits with your features.
o Don’t sound needy
o Make your life seem exciting
- When responding to a woman’s profile your email must be different and exciting or it will be deleted.
- Baby steps are used to transition from online to offline:
o Email is use to get the IM screen name
o IM is used to get the phone number
o and the phone is used to get the date.
- Asking for a desired response will increase the likelihood that you will get that desired response:
o Ask them to respond to your personal ad at the end of your ad
o Ask them to respond to your email at the end of your first email to them.
- On the date remember to relax. Getting uptight and nervous is the best way to leave a bad impression. Nervousness kills personality; it makes you seem boring and inhibited – not the kind of exciting type women are looking for.
- To increase your chances of success establish a connection before asking to get a woman’s phone number or asking her out on a date (also very useful for marriage proposals).
- It is important to transition from online to offline fairly quickly using baby steps so that you don’t lose momentum with a woman.
- To create a good first impression use the “old friend” technique to change your mindset (which will change your outward actions for the better.)
- On the date keep the conversation light and positive.
o Let her talk about herself as much as possible. If she asks a question then answer it but then, as soon as it is convenient, turn the conversation back on her.
o Don’t talk about your flaws. She will notice them ALL THE TIME after you point them out to her and it WILL make her like you less (unfortunately you DON’T come across as humble).
- The size of the personals site you join makes a BIG difference. Other qualities of the website are important but secondary.
Many, many people have found their “soul mate” using online dating. I wish you the same success…
o Don’t talk about your flaws. She will notice them ALL THE TIME after you point them out to her and it WILL make her like you less (unfortunately you DON’T come across as humble).
- The size of the personals site you join makes a BIG difference. Other qualities of the website are important but secondary.
Many, many people have found their “soul mate” using online dating. I wish you the same success…
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