Which Online Dating website you join makes a HUGE difference. The websites vary a great deal in size of membership database, usability, and quality of service. All things being equal, the most important factor is the size of the member base. Logically, the larger the member base the more women will meet your criteria and the greater the chances of your success. The two best sites1… There are A LOT of matchmaking sites out there on the Internet. I’ve thoroughly researched about 25 of the most popular sites out there and found two that stood out head and shoulders about all the rest. One for those just interested and casual dating and one for those people looking for long-term, serious relationships. This is really a gross generalization. I actually think you should check out both and see which one you like best. The great thing about both these sites is that you can search for matches without having to pay anything. For casual dating… I’ve researched most of the most popular dating sites and determined that the best one out there in terms of usability, size of database, etc. is, hands down. - You can chat online with other singles through their site. This is a great feature for getting to know women and is only found on a few of the better sites. - “Tease” feature where you can send another member a one-liner as a hint for them to check out your profile – can be fun. 1 This is just my opinion based on my experiences. You may have had different experiences. That is fine. Please do not email me and describe why you disagree.
- 24 hour help line. You can call and ask their tech support questions at any hour of the night. Much better than waiting for them to respond to emails. - Your email address remains cloaked (hidden) the whole time so you don’t have to worry about your inbox being filled with SPAM from advertisers. - Join free, start using it, and (if you like it) THEN you pay. For long-term relationships… If you are serious about finding your perfect match I highly, highly recommend is eHarmony.com. eHarmony.com is a little more expensive but it is unique in that they have a very detailed sign up process that includes a personality assessment. This part is free and quite interesting (after you are done they tell you all about your personality). They then “match” you with compatible people based on over 29 separate criteria. How well does it work? I thought it was a hoax but I must say that I have met several women through eHarmony.com that I am so compatible with it’s scary. Give it a try. I’ve actually talked to quite a few people that have had similar success with this site. I think they have something like 250 confirmed marriages! Not bad for such a (relatively) new site. Apparently this website employs psychologist to get results. If you have the means… If you really want to stack the deck in your favor you may want to join. By joining sites you will have doubled your selection of women. If you do this be careful to pace yourself when using the techniques in this book (for instance, if you send out a bunch of emails you may end up with a bottleneck of replies and then miss out on some missed opportunities).
Later I will tell you about a computer program you can use to keep the women straight. Something to know before joining… When you join you will be asked to enter some information about yourself. None of it is important because it can be changed at a later time EXCEPT your username which CANNOT be edited later. So don’t choose anything goofy, dumb, or nasty because that will drive women away. Somehow including your name in your username is always a safe bet.
- 24 hour help line. You can call and ask their tech support questions at any hour of the night. Much better than waiting for them to respond to emails. - Your email address remains cloaked (hidden) the whole time so you don’t have to worry about your inbox being filled with SPAM from advertisers. - Join free, start using it, and (if you like it) THEN you pay. For long-term relationships… If you are serious about finding your perfect match I highly, highly recommend is eHarmony.com. eHarmony.com is a little more expensive but it is unique in that they have a very detailed sign up process that includes a personality assessment. This part is free and quite interesting (after you are done they tell you all about your personality). They then “match” you with compatible people based on over 29 separate criteria. How well does it work? I thought it was a hoax but I must say that I have met several women through eHarmony.com that I am so compatible with it’s scary. Give it a try. I’ve actually talked to quite a few people that have had similar success with this site. I think they have something like 250 confirmed marriages! Not bad for such a (relatively) new site. Apparently this website employs psychologist to get results. If you have the means… If you really want to stack the deck in your favor you may want to join. By joining sites you will have doubled your selection of women. If you do this be careful to pace yourself when using the techniques in this book (for instance, if you send out a bunch of emails you may end up with a bottleneck of replies and then miss out on some missed opportunities).
Later I will tell you about a computer program you can use to keep the women straight. Something to know before joining… When you join you will be asked to enter some information about yourself. None of it is important because it can be changed at a later time EXCEPT your username which CANNOT be edited later. So don’t choose anything goofy, dumb, or nasty because that will drive women away. Somehow including your name in your username is always a safe bet.
